My guiding principles are to serve, be collaborative, and always leave the person with whom I am working in a better position than before we met. Meaning that, if what you are doing works and is best for you, you will know that. Keeping your current plans in place is always a viable option if what you have is already best. If your situation can be improved you will be invited to consider the changes… no pressure or obligation. I know that you have questions… I have answers!